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Comment from becs
Time: August 15, 2007, 12:06 am

You can choose to continue down the same path or decide that it’s time to find another road to travel upon. leaving the road to nowhere is not easy, but you’ll never regret it once you do.

Comment from michael
Time: August 16, 2007, 7:22 am

Self realization is the first step to recovery.

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Time: August 29, 2007, 5:15 am

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Comment from kitty
Time: September 1, 2007, 2:48 pm

If you always do what you’ve always done you will always be where you’ve always been…(or something like that…)

Comment from anonymous
Time: September 4, 2007, 4:16 pm

There is no rule that says you have to stay on the same road you are currently on. Make a turn onto the first dirt road on the left.

Comment from deanbear
Time: September 6, 2007, 7:00 am

As long as you take a step, it is going somewhere.

Comment from sue
Time: September 8, 2007, 12:18 am

If you know it’s not where you want it to be going, then you know it’s time to makes some needed changes. They probably won’t be easy, but you’ll know you’re going somewhere.

Comment from Me
Time: September 16, 2007, 1:56 am

i agree with sue… if i were you i’d move to some foreign place or something crazy like that… on the other hand it won’t change your direction just your location. I’ve noticed that people are obsessed with trying to be uber rich when, in fact, your life isn’t measured by how much money you make. i’m rambling just do what ever feels good and f**k the rest!

Comment from dean
Time: September 27, 2007, 3:12 am

You have control over where your life goes. It isn’t always easy, but you can get where you want to go with effort. Decide today that you will no longer go nowhere.

Comment from Maveth
Time: January 11, 2008, 8:30 am

I feel the same way; many people do and most will tell you how to change, but its not a simple step. There’s always road blocks, like money, responsibilities, dependents, debts, limitations, etc. You feel like you are running out of time and if you don’t go somewhere fast, you’ll be trapped. I understand completely. While it may not help you necessarily, think of it in this light. How many times do you get to live your life? Will the world end if you do something spontaneous? Are all these shackles worth missing out on something you’ve dreamed about? I never thought so. Money and time are hard anchors to lose, but what are you spending it on now? Is there another way to do what you want?

Comment from justin
Time: March 10, 2008, 2:45 am

i feel that no matter what i do, or how hard i try, i just cant seem to please anybody in my life, whether it be my family or my friends or even the times when i have a “girlfriend” if you can even call it that. i mean, i havent ever had a relationship longer than a couple of months and it seems like its the same thing that always happens, “i think we are better off friends than anything” or my personal favorite, “you are just too nice” WTF! what do you want me to do about that! i mean seriously! im sorry you women like to fall for jerks but i cant possibly be one because for one, i dont know how, and two i have no desire to be that way! and my family always tells me to just be myself and everything will fall into place! fuck that! no it wont! cause ive been being myself and it dont fucking work! but i dont know how to change that other than just moving far away from everything i know and starting completely over, which is looking really good right now!! i dont know tho, maybe someone who is in the same situation can help! aight thanks for listening anyways!

MAGGOT FOR LIFE BABY!!

Comment from Derek
Time: April 17, 2008, 10:25 pm

hey justin
i have been in the same situation where it seems like noone is pleased with anything i do and i feel like an outsider and the stupid lets just be friends stuff is hard to deal with and believe me you can find someone that will like you for who you are i had a 6 year relationship i never thought i would be with someone that long but it seemed like she didnt care about all the bad things that i did and she accepted me for who i was but she broke it off with me and i was the fool apologizing to her when she should have given me a little credit for all i did it was long distance and i moved to her town 2000 miles away twice to make it work and she wasnt willing to help me with anything and she was unappreciative of my efforts well all i can say is big waste of time next time ill be careful about the decisions i make regarding relationships and i know that i will find a better one and she wasnt the right one for me and thats cool but i still put alot of effort and time into a relationship i learned alot though through the process your family is right stay true to who you are there is someone out there for you and you will find it when you least expect it keep the faith

Comment from paul
Time: March 8, 2009, 7:25 pm

im so alone…. i feel the same way all of you do… is there a cure? is there something that can be done? i havent had a real job my whole life… i have no confidence left in my self i never want to leave my house… i could go on and on… is their any one out there who can help in resolving my pain, my sorrows, my heartaches… this endless feeling of loneliness in my heart?

Comment from Jeff
Time: April 2, 2009, 7:39 pm

I have so much to be grateful for but I keep making bad descisions. What the fuck is wrong with me? I have a loving wife, a beautiful daughter but a suck ass job. I know I have to make changes but can I talk myself into commiting to do what it takes to change my life? I guess time will tell or I will eventually run out of time.

Comment from Matt
Time: May 31, 2009, 10:18 am

For all of you that are asking why this or that keeps happening, whether it be relationships or money, drugs or despair. The only things that will never try to hurt you are those things that you never run into. EVERYTHING is going to try to crumble whatever castle you build, but what makes us human is the ability to change the defenses against it. Like rain on a roof, we are hit hard with peoples opinions, rules etc., but we have to persevere. Nobody can bring you down if you remember that hapiness comes from within, and NOBODY can take that from you. Unfortunately we are givin this set of rules when we are raised, on how to live and what to obtain in life. Honestly, if you look at that set of rules, it basically means we were made to go through a strict set of motions untill we die, almost as if we are born with debt that can only be repaid by working untill we are old and fragile, then stripped of even more and placed in homes provided by government care, if you want to even call it that. What I dare everyone who reads this is to step off this path. It was made by men, and we can def. change it. Peace brothers and sisters.

Comment from Aaron
Time: June 1, 2009, 2:06 pm

Well, I’m 32 and I thought that my life was going to be making music with my good friend. That isn’t happening after 5 years of doing the band and working shitty jobs. My band cohort was a friend that turned out to be a total piece of shit. Hardly anything works out the way you want it to. Now, I have been laid off like millions of other Americans. I’m living with my parents now, and I feel like such a waste of space. Hope is the only thing that I have to hold on to. I don’t even really worry about meeting women anymore, I’m just trying to find a reason to go on. All any of us can do is try over and over again, even if your happiness lasts for a few minutes, you need to lock it into your memory so you can go to that point in time and remember what it feels like to be happy. A positive mental attitude is so valuable, and that is the only key to success in our lives. We all have to work hard at achieving it. Believe me, I know it seems impossible. It isn’t impossible, we control the perception of our environment. Let’s change! What do we have to lose?

Comment from Rick
Time: February 16, 2010, 4:28 pm

Well I’m in a similar place to a lot of people, my life sucks, whatever I get what ever I have is never ever enough, I’ve moved 14 times in the last five years I went from a tent to a cliff to a mental hospital to another mental hospital to shared house and moved from area to area place to place. Saying that with minimal effort I now have a house with a jacuzzi in it , fully furnished with leather couches and a new kitchen , hell I did’nt even need to pay the deposit and don’t pay bills or rent, surely I should be fukking dancing around like some mindless lucky twit … Well I’m not I’m miserable, I’ve fallen in love with someone in another country, I live hundreds of miles from my nearest family member my family are all driving me mad to come home . I cant stand the place where I came from.I have all these great talents and no idea what to do with them. The conflict in my head is pathetic. I never finish what I start I wanna do everything all at once and I feel I’m just a pathetic sorry looser. Oh and the worst thing is I can sort everyone elses problems in a methodical fashion and it works, when it comes to me I can’t even take my library books back on time ahhhhhhhhh

Comment from Ellie
Time: March 6, 2010, 10:58 pm

I found this random site by googling I am alone or something like that. Don’t feel bad. I am 37, and feel like I don’t know what to do anymore or get out of my present situation. I am very angry lately and jealous of what other people have. I have no job and I am living with an Uncle who can be abusive and his friend lives upstairs. They are angry sob’s who will deprive me of hot water by running the hot water all day long so that all I have for a shower is cold water. His house is nice, but not if I have to live with him or his house is not livable more like the dead zone. I thought I would have something more in life by now. We don’t have a phone in the house anymore partially because my Uncle is psychotic and gets angry at the phone if it rings and did I mention he worked at the Post Office his whole life. I know it is no good for me to be around messed up people. I am going to college to get a B.A. in Accounting, but what I would really like is to move to another state so that I can find a job and make some money to do things I want for fun. I don’t want everything. I am not greedy. All I want to do is live a simple life. At the moment taking the road less traveled would mean I live on the street. I don’t put myself down, but when my Uncle is out of the house or I am at school I am happy and content. I would be happy with an apartment, job etc. just the simple things.