ConfessMail

Comment from greenday
Time: August 26, 2007, 6:49 pm

One of the most difficult emotions to overcome is envy, but it is one that will make your life a lot less happy if you embrace it. It is when we learn to focus on our own life and not worry about what others have, that we can begin to fine happiness and satisfaction in our own life.

Comment from delaney
Time: August 30, 2007, 6:05 pm

I assume that there are issues with your sister taking boyfriends away with her sex appeal. My sister was like that when we were growing up and it took a long time for us to mend those wounds. Forgiving is never easy, but it will take a lot of the hatred away.

Comment from renee
Time: September 7, 2007, 5:38 am

Don’t let your jealousy turn into hate. It’s difficult to turn abck the clock when it hardens like that.

Comment from fiona
Time: September 23, 2007, 5:19 pm

sex appeal is a double edged sword. While you may be looking at the parts that make you jealous, there are some negatives that go with sex appeal such as men not taking you seriously on an intellectual level.

Comment from always at the wrong place
Time: February 21, 2008, 1:45 am

Well, let’s talk first. Sometimes people come out beautiful and sometimes people come out bad. I know you envy your sister but ts not like she had a choice to become pretty. I would say, “I know what you mean…” If it was about her being a mean and bratty kid, but you shouldn’t turn you love for your sibling to hatred. When I was a kid, I had a big sister that was 3 years older than me. She was good at art, piano, music, and she had an outstanding character. I was really jealous. I hated her because of that. But I finally found what I’m good at, sports. My sister wasn’t really a sporty type so I felt proud becaus eI was finally better than her. So, I began to love sports! I also began to love my sister too. So, you should change your heart and find something that your good at and that you love. It can take out your stress and start to forget your hatred and her apeal. It can also make you look better because whats better is not the outside, but the inside!

Good Luck!

dandlylion

Comment from amber
Time: September 28, 2008, 6:29 pm

i know this has pretty much nothing to do with this but i have to let my anger out someswhere. my sister is freaking shit. first of all, her bff had a boyfriend,and my sis all of a sudden fell in love with him. she stole her guy,got pregnant, and now im a fuckin aunt. her bff was really nice,and my sister just didnt get it. lemme tell you about this guy, ok? his name is kevin. HES FUCKING EMOTIONAL SHIT. NOW HES MY BROTHER IN LAW. UGH!! now, he tells briana us(her family) are phsyco,she believes him(of course) and sneaked out of the house everynight. now shes a mom,once independent-not-ever-needing-help-briana,not ‘oh mommy plz pay me money so i dont have to go on wellfare’ briana. and everyone feels bad shes a mom. oh wow, im SOO suprised she was preggo. wow, just wow. oh my fucking god help me,help me out of this burning hell. fuck fuck fuck,fuck. i freaking want her to die. i mean,i luvs the baby verry much,its just, i hate its motherr. omgawwd. help,help HELPHEP HELP!! i want to talk to someone but theres noway im talking. i know too much and none of it needs to spoken of. fuck,again. ugh, help again, amberr.

Comment from notnaming
Time: January 5, 2009, 4:35 am

****ING sex apeal me got no life :]

Comment from sisterhate
Time: March 18, 2009, 12:32 pm

i hate my sister too. she went to lunch w my ex-boyfriend, justifying it because they were friends a little when we were kids. even though she knows he and i had a horrible falling out. she often gets in touch w friends of mine and has lunch with them after only meeting them once. why? and why did a couple of them stop talking to me after she did. hmmmm. i’ve been supportive of my sister but i don’t know how my comments get twisted around in her brain. for example she was visiting 2 xmas’ ago. we were shopping. she was really upset because she thought her legs were fat. i said they weren’t. later she told me she gets so insecure about her looks when she sees me, she told me i told her her legs were fat. she makes her insecurities into my fault. she actually transposes reality to take no responsibility for her feelings about herself. she has been so unkind and is then good at making me look bad in other people’s eyes. she actually believes this stuff. i can’t take it anymore. even my mother sees me as this harsh, greedy person who has had all the breaks, even though i have suffered so much the past few years. my family is so twisted. they have used me emotionally to not face their problems face-on. and they have lost me. i am a sweet person. i am kind. i do get very upset but my god how was i supposed to deal with this all my life. they can have eachother but i am tired of being used. sorry you weren’t born good looking or whatever the fuck it is that has made you so upset with me. i’m tired of your jabs. i’m tired of you treating me like i’m an asshole when i’m not. i’m tired of you not believing me. please go away forever.

Comment from Harold Clarck
Time: August 10, 2009, 10:10 am

Its stupid & senseless! ANYBODY can upgrade their looks & change them, Michael Jackson stopped at nothing. dont blame her for looking good Blame YOURSELF for not trying hard enough to look sexy……

Comment from tokyopop_1
Time: August 19, 2009, 11:35 am

–> Harold Clarck
You do nothing but make people feel worse.

Comment from Kexandra
Time: September 11, 2009, 5:10 am

I know my sister my entire life, 25 years. I am the younger sister and she never wanted to share anything. As we were kids she would enjoin everything to me. The only way to break this, were my parents and a lot of trouble and lies from her. As we grow up, she was very sucessful, but she don´t get a adult family member. She must always take in the center and when not she were never satisfied. And he most important point was money and ownership since she was a babe. And how she was in her childhood, she become as adult with all her power games.

But all this time is over, she has exhaust it. Nobody of my family want to speak with her and she lives till x-mas in our house.
My Mom, my Dad and I, we don´t want to become friends at any time with her, because she has always her own will and you has to do what she said.

I will not, that my sister destroy my life, like she do it all th time. And I will never do what she want, for what? I will enjoy it, when she get envious and I get everything till my parents die.
And I will build my own family and she is not in it and I am not sorry. This time is over.