ConfessMail

Comment from La Chatte
Time: October 11, 2007, 12:59 pm

If he does come back he’ll break your heart again and again. Face it, he’s not the one for you… you’ll find Mr. Right when you least expect it.

Comment from xena
Time: October 12, 2007, 3:32 am

Don’t wait. Just don’t do it. Move on with your life. There is nothing worse than waiting for someone that will never fulfill your wishes.

Comment from sue
Time: October 13, 2007, 5:34 pm

I’m so sorry that he broke your heart. Waiting for him to return won’t heal that wound although you might believe that at this time. Moving on with your life will and if he returns at some point, you’ll be in a much better position to decide if he is truly worth it for you.

Comment from LadyXS
Time: October 17, 2007, 8:08 am

Please move on. Otherwise you will just get hurt twice as badly the next time, and even feel like it’s your fault.

Comment from cix
Time: November 3, 2007, 9:09 am

Hey. I really do understand where you’re coming form. I lived in that dillusional “it’ll be better this time” world for three long years. It never got better. In fact it felt like every time i let him back into my heart, he shoved the knife a little deeper! Believe me, he’ll hurt you more this time. Please know that forgiveness and resolve are two different things. You don’t have to take him back to show him you’ve forgiven him. Forgive him for the hurt (failing to makes you his prisoner), and then get on with your life. Easier said than done I know, but it does get easier and if you allow yourself to heal, the pain gets less. So does that mean we shouldn’t cut each other some slack? Of course not! People make mistakes and we deserve second chances, right? Here’s the thing though, by breaking your heart, he messed up your trust in him.Let him earn it back, (and don’t make it easy for him…the way I see it the burden of proof is on HIS side, not yours. He’s the one who needs to proove his worth. Besides, if he truly is sorry and wants you back…. then that should be a small price to pay,no?) Whatever you decide, as only YOU can and must…..I wish you all the best.

Comment from justme
Time: February 12, 2008, 3:51 pm

I’m going through the same thing. I’d do anything for him … but he simply uses me and I know it. I let him use me. Why am I such an idiot for wanting him back. I have to say goodbye to him. Besides, sometimes I feel he only wants me around when he needs something. When his life is going well, he has no need for me. He gives me words of support and encouragement, but they are empty words and he’s never really gone out of his way for me. He never made me feel special at all. I think he is embaressed of me anyway.