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Comment on I hate being black by blkandproud

blkandproud — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 06:58:58 +0000

if being white were so great why do white women steal our hair style, inject foreign toxic substances into their lips, get fake asses. have polluted the world whereever they have gone. brigning false fake white jesues and usurping the religion of every continent and they invades. i hope that bin ladne kick all of their lying sorry asses. any black man who goes off to fight the white man war only to return home to teabaggeing racists republicans deserve to be shot dead in whatever country they are fighting. remember once you go black you never go back seen many a white penis (am a nurse) in my lifetime, never met a single one i would allow to touch me. i love my fine, fine fine, balck men. i don’t like the behavior of may of my people but i still love them. all of you people who are on here hating yourself, and wanting biracial kids just know this biracial kids have a higher incidence of heart disease, perhap it’s the heart longing to belong.

Comment on Global Warming by Tired

Tired — Sat, 21 Aug 2010 08:30:42 +0000

how was that racist in any way?

Comment on Send a Confession by Tired

Tired — Sat, 21 Aug 2010 07:37:43 +0000

After three years I asked him if he loved me, he said no. I was relieved, I never loved him either. So why does it still hurt?

Comment on Send a Confession by chewy

chewy — Sat, 21 Aug 2010 07:31:19 +0000

I lick the salt off of pretzels, then put them back in the bag!!!! HAHA my parents wonder why the pretzels are soggy : )

Comment on Send a Confession by Elle

Elle — Sat, 21 Aug 2010 07:18:20 +0000

I am a teller. Every year for Christmas I anonymously send a $200 gift card for Safeway to a family with a severely overdrawn account. I only send gift cards so the bank can’t take their money. My favorite part is when they come in, and I get to ask them how their Christmas was. I can’t decide if that is selfish or not.

Comment on Send a Confession by bec

bec — Wed, 04 Aug 2010 06:46:06 +0000

I have a bf of a year an a half… But i still have feelings for another guy that i have known for 7yrs… We both want to be with each other but we dont want to hurt the people we are with… Im not ready to leave my bf for him rite now as i dont have money to move back home… But i secretly wish every day that i end up with him… We are just perfect for each other!! its hard when my bf now thinks we will last, i do love him but this otha guy is the one foe me!!

Comment on I hate being black by Sia

Sia — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 12:17:28 +0000

From a white, blonde, blue eyed girl from scandinavia.

To all you black people who hate being black – I think how you come to see yourself also depends a lot on where you live and grew up.

Here being afro-american is a hit – most stores want diversity in their staff and prefers to hire a mix of races – blacks, chinese, arabian etc etc.

Also all the african women I know are both popular and sophisticated – most people I know see them as strong independent women (and extra interesting because many of them have an exiting pasts and different roots than the typical scandinavian girl) and many men here prefer dark women and dark skin is also a hit with the men. I don’t see the stereo types you are talking about in scandinavia – only in american movies.

The picture I get in my mind when I hear the word “black person” is first of all Neytiri from Avatar (I know she is fiction – but her strong personality, the fact that she is in touch with nature and true to her roots are all traits i see in Black women) also who comes to mind is Ida Corr, Oprah, Obama etc + great culture = preserved wildlife and savannas, beautiful nature, genuine warm people, and least but not last the tight bond I think mostly black families have with each other.

And I know about Aids and poverty but in my opinion thats not what being a black is all about, just a phase the Country is going through.

Comment on I hate being black by TT

TT — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 23:58:11 +0000

I don’t hate being black. I just can’t stand the way other blacks are. If you think that being black is horrible than try being black and a loner. I enjoy my solitude to say the least. Most of the time I want to be alone. For most blacks this is WAY out of the norm and they never let me forget it. Being a loner isn’t the problem here, I enjoy it. As a loner my standards for anyone that I spend time with is high. The person must be honest, kind, respectful and themselves. Most blacks do not fit into those categories (except the last one). I refuse to lower my standards for friendship. Therefore, I am alone. I have been ridiculed and laughed at for being myself, by my own people. I have never gotten this type of treatment from whites or Hispanics.
As a whole black people suck, horribly. They are loud, surly, and atrocious. I hate to speak this way about my own people but most blacks are everything that I despise.
The problem with black people is that they expect every black person to act the same way and when you don’t, they treat you like a monster. Followers don’t make history, leaders do. Why don’t blacks understand that being different and not following the herd is the best way to save us. When we acknowledge our own responsibility and stop playing the race card we could truly be great. Unfortunately, this will never happen. I honestly can’t stand black people. I want to be proud of my heritage but other blacks make it hard to want to accept my race. Sometimes it makes me want to cry, knowing that the entire black race will destroy itself without the help of eugenics and other population control plans. I want to be an other race but black. It upsets me to no end to realize that as a black woman I am usually seen as inferior to women of other races. I’m tired of people expecting the worse from me, expecting me to have a negative attitude and a loud mouth. Damn all the black people that live up to their stereotypes. I just want to live in peace, is that too much to ask?

Comment on Send a Confession by Ashamed

Ashamed — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 21:32:09 +0000

I didnt know how to breakup with him. So i told him something that I did which I actually didn’t so he’d hate me and breakup with me. I felt bad and ended up apologizing and begging him to forgive me for this thing i didn’t even do. Now he dosen’t trust me because of it and treats me like crap. I don’t have it in me to tell him the truth and jst end it. I feel so stupid.

Comment on Send a Confession by Ashamed

Ashamed — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 21:27:08 +0000

I kissed another guy. My husband dosen’t know.